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Fear of olita

Fear of olita

Question:

- My child is 3 years old and six months old and a year ago he had a soft chair because of an antibiotic, then he got scared and he didn't want to do the big job in the pot, instead of the small job he asks for the pot and he does. I do not know what method to apply, I tried to explain, give him courage, but he is very scared and does not want to do. Maybe you can help me with a tip because I don't know what to do, I guess there is a remedy, but because I am the first child I don't know how to deal with it. He is also a little nervous, at all he says no and he does not eat as well as before.

Answer:

To begin with, investigate further the child's fear and try to find out what the reasons for this retention are. Why is the child afraid? What will happen if he uses oil to do the job? Also keep in mind the times when your child used the potion for this purpose during the year since the event in question and also try to get an idea of ​​the circumstances in which he accepted.

To begin with, investigate further the child's fear and try to find out what the reasons for this retention are. Why is the child afraid? What will happen if he uses oil to do the job? Also keep in mind the times when your child used the potion for this purpose during the year since the event in question and also try to get an idea of ​​the circumstances in which he accepted.
If there were such moments, use them as an example in your attempt to change this behavior. You can also help with the power of the game, through the game you can learn multiple skills and strengthen some already existing.

In order to remove this fear of your child, by using to say an extra monkey, you can show him that in fact nothing bad happens, the monkey is fine after using the pot and so will he.
In order to be more accessible to the child, your encouragement can take the form of stories, stories in which the characters go through similar situations, but which in the end overcome their fear and everything returns to normal.
A solution can also be the actual replacement of the object to be feared, the pot now, with a new one. It is a symbolic replacement, thus eliminating the danger posed by the old pot. Together with the child, like a ritual of removing the river, throw the old one. Go with your child to shopping and give him the opportunity to choose his new pot, preferably one different from the old one in terms of color, etc. It is important to adopt a supportive attitude towards the child and avoid pushing the child towards something that causes fear.
Approaching the proposed goal is gradual and will not happen overnight, but your consistency in assuring the child that everything will be okay and the support given to it will support this process.
Good luck!

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